Theme For The Week - Why?
Why? It's probably the most frequently asked question of homeschoolers, except of course the one about socialisation. So why do you home school? Are the reasons you home school today different from what they were when you first made the decision?
There are so many reasons why I am homeschooling my precious girls. My reasons haven't changed since I first thought about homeschooling, they have multiplied!
When my older children were little, I wanted to homeschool them because of religious reasons, a couple of families in our small Mennonite church homeschooled their children and it seemed to me as if that was the way God wanted it. Unfortunately, the children's father wouldn't allow it. And after the divorce I didn't see any feasible way to homeschool anyway due to my work schedule.
Since that time I have watched my children go through the public school system and I do not want my babies to have to suffer through the same system.
So my reasons for homeschooling are many:
1) Still a religious conviction, though stronger now, that I should be the one educating my children in the way that would bring them up for the Lord. Not being influenced by evolution everywhere they turn around especially.
2)I want my children to be able to read and comprehend. Something all my older children struggle with I feel in part because of the way it is taught in the school and the way they are pushed through, ready or not.
3)I want my children to have a love of learning and not just learn just enough for a test and then forget it again.
4)I want to be a part of those special milestones, see the ah-hah moments, the gleam in their eyes as they discover something they didn't know before.
5)I don't want my kids to worry about being bullied as my older ones have been.
6)I don't like having been at odds with the teachers throughout the older children's schooling. Trying to help the children with homework, but being told I wasn't doing something the right way because the teacher taught it differently. Never quite knowing how to help.
Now that Tabitha has just started Sunday School, she is quite eager to go to class and every once in a while I wonder if preschool would be a good thing for her. Then I realize the bad influences she could be exposed to even this young, I realize she is learning quite a bit at home and I know I am doing the right thing.
Addition Aug 5, 2010:
When I discovered my 18 year old son, who just graduated from high school and my 14 year old, can't answer simple questions such as, Who did we fight in the revolutionary war? And: Who was fighting in the Civil War, I decided I will never falter in my decision to homeschool my children. Check out the links below and over at Mama to 3 Blessings blog, to see why others are homeschooling.
Addition Aug 5, 2010:
When I discovered my 18 year old son, who just graduated from high school and my 14 year old, can't answer simple questions such as, Who did we fight in the revolutionary war? And: Who was fighting in the Civil War, I decided I will never falter in my decision to homeschool my children. Check out the links below and over at Mama to 3 Blessings blog, to see why others are homeschooling.
Thank you for sharing your reasons. :)
ReplyDeleteBeing at odds with the teacher-I forgot about that one! I remember my parents and brother going round and round with my brother telling my parents they were wrong. Thank you for the reminder of such a great reason! I'm glad you get to keep your little ones home.
ReplyDeleteThey are great reasons. I often get asked 'why' too, and I groan quietly. There are so many reasons, a good hour long chat is not enough time let alone trying to explain to a check out operator lol.
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